Showing posts with label birth story. Show all posts
Showing posts with label birth story. Show all posts

Sunday, November 17, 2013

World Prematurity Day

Today, November 17th is world prematurity day. In honor of all the preemies who have left this world too soon, who have struggled more than anyone should ever have to, and for my precious miracles who all came too soon, I will post their stories.... When I went into pre-term labor with Sammy at 27 weeks I was dumbfounded. I had no thoughts that this would ever happen to me. I had thought that I was eating healthy, exercising, resting appropriately and doing all that the doctors recommended. I was placed on bed rest and on medications to stop the contractions. I was able to carry Sam's pregnancy to 35 weeks and 4 days. At that point I was diagnosed with severe pre-eclampsia and HELLP Syndrome. I was induced to save both of our lives. When he was born he had poor apgar scores and had to be resuscitated. He spent 19 days in the NICU, had lots of apnea/bradycardia issues. He also was jaundiced and had some feeding issues. He is now 7, and is thriving. He has some medical issues but he is doing so well. When I again went into preterm labor at 28 weeks with Sophia Grace, I was absolutely heartbroken. I so desperately wanted a full term healthy baby. Thankfully because I had already had one preemie I was able to get steroids to help develop Sophia's lungs faster. When she was born at 35weeks and 1 day I was thrilled when she came out screaming and was 5lb 8oz. She had TTN, which is "transient tachypnea of the newborn", but it resolved quickly. She also was jaundiced but was able to come home on day 5. It was wonderful having her come home so quickly. When I got pregnant with Preston in 2011, I initially starting seeing a regular OB doctor, but around 20 weeks started having elevated liver tests, and there was a thought to induce labor so that I would deliver the baby and not get sicker. I was adamant that I wasn't going to have the baby that early. I decided to go to the high risk OB's in Boston, and it was a wonderful decision. They listened to every complaint I had and gave me steroids as I requested. With Preston I never officially had HELLP Syndrome but the doctors believed I was headed in that direction so they wanted to deliver him. I delivered Preston at 34 weeks and 3 days. He was my big boy weighing in at 5lb 15oz!!! Preston required intubation, bili lights, and some tube feedings, but was discharged from the hospital at 10 days of age. And then sweet Paisley. I expected that I would have complications this pregnancy and didn't expect that I would be able to carry to full term. Throughout the pregnancy there were more and more issues. My goal was just to make it to 34 weeks so that I could deliver at Emerson Hospital which is the hospital where I was born. Unfortunately I only made it to 33 weeks. Paisley weighed 4lb 3oz when she was born. She dealt with respiratory distress, some bradycardia, jaundice, poor feeding and some vomiting issues. She stayed in the hospital for what seemed like forever and was was discharged after 21 days in the hospital As you can see prematurity has played a huge role in my journey as a mother. I haven't gotten the experience of bringing home a full term chunky baby, or felt so big when I was nearing my due date. Please support preemies and the March of Dimes, and the research they can do to prevent this from continuing to happen to others.

Sunday, September 22, 2013

My due date

Today is my due date for Paisley! It feels like the pregnancy ended so long ago and that God has healed my body so much since it has ended. Looking back on those crazy few days, and remembering how disappointed I was that I wasn't going to get my full term baby, I am just so grateful that God brought us through all of it, and that our lives are a testimony to His amazing love and grace. My pregnancy buddy Michelle was due two days after me (this coming tues). She was induced this past week as her doctor was expecting a very large baby. So the other day Paisley and I went to go meet Baby Genesys. She is 8lb 6oz, and seemed so much bigger than Paisley. Seeing how uncomfortable Michelle was, I am a little relieved that I didn't have to still be pregnant today :-) Michelle and I are hoping that Paisley and Genesys will be great friends. Paisley wasn't happy at all during our visit so she is screaming, and while there my friend who is also a lactation consultant pointed out that Paisley is tongue tied, which I already knew...

Friday, August 9, 2013

Paisley's first days

Paisley Jean is named after two of the most amazing women in my entire world. Both my grandmother and my mother are named Jean, as well as it being my middle name being named after them. I knew that as soon as I got pregnant that if this baby was at girl that her middle name would be after these two amazing women. Her first name has been a complete challenge, but then we found the name Paisley and love it! So it was so amazing when she was first delivered she screamed her little tiny head off! It was such a beautiful sound. Being only 33 weeks we weren't sure how feisty she would be at birth especially due to the fact that I was on so many medications. But she screamed and it was beautiful. She weighed 4lb 4oz and was 17.5 inches long. She is my smallest little angel. Shortly after delivery she started having a tough time breathing. (I was unaware of any of this as I was very very sick). She was placed on CPAP, with the hope that she would be weaned off it fairly quickly. Unfortunately they didn't give her surfactant, so she needed the CPAP longer than expected. I wasn't allowed out of the recovery/critical care area until around 5pm that night!!! It was awful. I saw her (although not clearly) in the delivery room around 3:36 in the morning and then not until the evening. I was so sick that my vision was affected and I couldn't see clearly for hours. The most amazing surprise happened as well. My mom texted all my siblings on Thursday evening and told them that they were doing an emergency C-section. My youngest brother Dennis jumped in his car and drove through the night from North Carolina to come support us!!! I was still in the recovery area when he got here and SHOCKED me! It was such an amazingly wonderful surprise. Poor guy drove thirteen plus hours and then spent several hours hanging out with me before they would take out all the monitors and let me go to the NICU. I was still fairly unstable when we went to the NICU so I didn't really sit and look at her but I got to see her tiny little legs and touch her feet. Dennis got to touch her and was so nervous about it. The look on his face was priceless!!!!

Welcome to the world Miss Paisley :-)

I am getting as much snuggle time in with my girl as possible.... She is doing well today. I will continue her story later tonight :-) For now enjoy these pictures of my little beauty